“A
Date with the King”
by
Savaslas Lofton
Do you
remember your very first date? After
greeting him, did you find yourself
immediately comparing him with a list of
expectations you may have predicated based
on past experiences? Did you listen intently
to see how he responded to questions you
adeptly asked to test the authenticity of
his truthfulness and character? Did you
anticipate him opening your car door,
entertaining you with productive dialogue,
and offering to pay for your meal? Was he
respectable and courteous like you imagined?
Having this list of “do’s and don’ts”
probably provided you with an emotional
safeguard to help gauge how far to let him
into your personal space. I am quite sure
that you would agree that having an
offensive strategy is much more effective
than having a defensive strategy when
calculating the unknowns of dating. The
fourth chapter of John speaks of a woman who
never had the chance to prepare herself for
the ultimate date with the
King, Jesus
Christ. “He left Judea and
returned to Galilee. It was necessary for
Him to go through Samaria. And in doing so,
He arrived at a Samaritan town called Sychar,
near the tract of land that Jacob gave to
his son Joseph. And Jacob’s well was there.
So Jesus, tired as He was from His journey,
sat down [to
rest] by the
well. It was then about the sixth hour
(about noon). Presently, when
a woman of Samaria came along to draw water,
Jesus said to her, Give Me a drink.” (v. 4,
6-7 AMP) When meeting someone for the first
time, the protocol is to make a formal
introduction. However, Jesus demonstrated
that Divine appointment is more important to
Him than protocol. This is what Dr. Mike
Brown, author of “Beyond Ordinary,” calls a
defining moment. By challenging
her belief
system and exposing her to the Truth, this
life-changing moment with the Savior
revolutionized her way of thinking and
living. Jesus said, “…
All who drink
of this water will be thirsty again. But
whoever takes a drink of the water that I
will give him shall never, no never, be
thirsty any more. But the water that I will
give him shall become a spring of water
welling up (flowing, bubbling) [continually]
within him unto (into, for) eternal life.”
(John 4:13-14 AMP)
Before meeting
Jesus, the Samaritan woman was not acutely
aware of how much she desperately needed
this living
water. She was
too preoccupied with the challenges of life
to stop and notice how spiritually
dehydrated she had become. It was customary
that the stronger
young women of
the household were usually responsible for
bringing back water from Jacob’s well; but
she had no one to help her. Can you imagine
how difficult it was for her to do
everything on her own, taking very little
time, if any, to nurture the spiritual and
emotional side of her? She had to endure the
scorching heat, despite how tired, parched
and weary she was. Her needs had to become
secondary if she was to keep up with the
rigorous living conditions
of her life.
The Samaritan woman’s defining moment was at
this point of desperation. Coming to the
realization of her own personal need, “The
woman said to Him, Sir, give me this water,
so that I may never get thirsty nor have to
come [continually all the way] here to
draw.” (John 4:15 AMP) This
was the conversion of her heart; she reached
out to Jesus in her desperation, reaching
the place of surrender, as she realized she
could no longer do it on her own.
Like the
Samaritan woman, have you reached your point
of surrender? Thirst comes as a result for a
valid need for water. Do you find yourself
replacing your thirst for the “Living
Water”, with people and things that only
bring nothing but a false sense of security?
Jesus is sitting on the well of your life
waiting for you to realize that He is the
only living water that can quench the thirst
of your soul. Jesus is saying to YOU, “Come
to Me, all you who labor and are heavy-laden
and overburdened and I will cause you to
rest...”
(Matthew
11:28 AMP)•